Children and Moving

When a family move becomes inevitable, it is important to involve your children in the process. Since moving can cause some concerns for children, like going to a new school, leaving friends, and unfamiliarity about the new neighborhood, things will go a lot easier if your children support your efforts to get your current home sold. It is important that children keep their toys and clothes put away, and teenagers understand about keeping their room in "showing" condition. Also, showing a family home is much more successful for the realtor if the family is away, therefore, the children will look forward to more family outings. Make an effort to include everyone in the discussions about the move and your children on house hunting trips. Taking a moment to listen to their opinions, concerns, and desires will help them to feel important and a part of the moving process. Get them excited about their new room and take this opportunity to incorporate some changes according to their age, new style, and latest trends. New House, New School? Try This... 1. If possible, give your child three months' notice before an upcoming move, so that they have time to get used to the idea. 2. Explain the reasons for the relocation. 3. Familiarize your child with their new neighborhood ahead of time. 4. Emphasize the positive aspects of the move. 5. Contact the school your child will be attending and arrange a time to visit and tour the school before hand to get them confident about attending a new environment with new friends. Contact a realtor who is comfortable with children and will be sensitive to their needs and concerns.